Singles, Know when to say WHEN!

When you cruise around the net you will discover many fascinating questions in dating forums:

"I have been in a relationship with a man for 10 years. He hasn't popped the question ...doesn't even tell me that he loves me.

"I've known this guy for just about three months and at first it was amazing. We used to spend a great deal of free time with each other. For the most part everyday. As of late we don't spend time with each other that much. What is the best thing for me to do?" - Jade

Why are these ladies putting up with this? Why would they waste their time on guys who don't treat them the way they should be treated? Because women think if they hang around long enough, things will turn out to be wonderful. Yet their better half is signaling to them every single day that they are through but haven't yet moved forward. Or, maybe, they are merely satisfied with you cleaning their house and cooking their meals. Also, men never go without intimacy. If they are not getting it from you, they are finding it elsewhere.

It's also a pretty likely bet that most of your friends and relatives don't like him/her either. That's because they know you aren't happy and aren't treated the way you deserve to be treated.

"But I'd rather be in a relationship with , than be single", you say. "He really isn't that intense, besides, all couples have arguments".

Truthfully, a relationship is often not as stimulating after a few months. So if you are not yet certain that things are done yet, perhaps try to put a little spice in the relationship once again. If your partner does not respond, it is likely time to move on.

You can't get somebody who will enjoy you for you if your eyes are shut.

Not yet certain? Hold a conversation with her or him. Be precise and ask questions:
"Are you happy?"
"Do you want to take this relationship to the next level? If so, when?"

This can be the most difficult thing you have ever had to do but it will likely be the smartest thing you ever did. You only live life once, why spend your time with someone that does not appreciate all the amazing little things that make you unique? Each moment that you are with that dud is time that you could've spent with the light of your life!